LOVE THE BODY!
SPIRIT, NATURE & PRAYER in LOMILOMI
by Barbara Helynn Heard
LOKAHI TRIANGLE
Being aware of my relationship with both Spirit and nature makes me
feel alive. Feeling fresh air on my face makes me feel
alive. Moving makes me feel alive. Dancing makes me
feel alive. I feel most alive and particularly connected with
Spirit when I am outdoors. When I pray I feel alive and of course when
I connect with people via lomilomi I feel alive!
I love the concept of the
lokahi
triangle, or the harmony
triangle. This Hawaiian concept refers to the interdependent
relationship between Spirit, nature and humanity. Each is an
equally important corner of the
lokahi
triangle.
Harmony between humanity, nature and Spirit
supports not only health
and peace for us as individuals but also health and peace for our
communities
and our global societies. This
indigenous model offers a blueprint for living that gives me hope.
When I remember the lokahi
triangle as
I give lomilomi massage, I can draw on
the healing powers of nature and of God in my work!
THE LILLIES
OF THE FIELD
This Bible verse, Mathew 6:28-29 speaks to me.
Consider the lilies of the
field, how they grow. They neither
toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not
clothed like one of these….
Nature is so beautiful!! The trees are
so graceful! The
flowers are gorgeous! The birds – some lovely in
their simplicity and others flamboyantly beautiful! The
animals of all colors, shapes and sizes – butterflies,
grasshoppers, cats, wolves, patterned snakes, and on and
on!!! The sunrises and sunsets, the rivers and lakes and
ocean, the mountains: all of them beautiful!! Even
fires and storms and volcanoes hold a certain beauty. Our
earth is a marvel of beauty!!! Oh how I love to rest my eyes
in nature!
KUA
The word and concept of kua
are very special! Kua
is the Hawaiian word for back, and it includes the word ku –
to stand tall. Our spine is our kuamo’o
–
or literally our gecko back. Makua –
literally from the back – means parents. Aumakua
– literally the period of time coming from the back
– refers to a deified aspect of ancestors which can guide us
and is often experienced as being embodied in particular animals or
plants. Kuahiwi
is the word for a mountain ridge.

I love how
kua
connects us both with the earth and with our family
present and past! And our
kuamo’o,
or spine, when considered together with the concepts of our several
piko,
can
literally be seen as a time line connecting us with our ancestors and
our descendents.
PIKO
Certain spots on our bodies are piko, or energy centers. The
Hawaiian word
piko
can be loosely translated as chakra. The
piko on the
crown of our heads which is soft when we are born connects us with
Spirit and with those who have come before us. The
piko at
our navel connects us with our current generation. This is
the
piko
where we were physcially connected with our mother through our
umbilical cords. And our genitals represent the
piko
connecting us with our
descendents. What wondrous bodies we have!!
E piko
kakou! is the greeting we use in Hawaiian hale
pulo’ulo’u – Hawaiian sweat
lodge ceremonies.
E
piko kakou literally means
let us all be piko
together, and for me it means
let us all be family.
We call
out
E piko kakou
each time a person or a stone enters the
hale, the
structure we use for the ceremony.
Pehea
kou piko? is a traditional Hawaiian greeting used between
friends. While it can be literally translated as h
ow is your belly
button?, it means h
ow
are you and your entire family? I like
this! It feels softer and fuller than the English
how are
you?
I love not only individual words in the Hawaiian language, and not only
the soft sound of Hawaiian language, but also the values and feelings
which live within the words!
CONNECTING
NATURE, SPIRIT AND GENERATIONS OF PEOPLE
So with our bones and our
piko
our bodies contain a living timeline as well as living energy centers
connecting us with our ancestors, with our descendants, with Spirit and
with nature. I like this idea!! What an honor and
responsibility!! What a thing of beauty!! What a
good reason to stand tall!!!
‘IKE 'IA NO KA LOEA I KE KUAHU
‘Ike
'ia no ka loea i ke kuahu can be translated
an expert is
known by the altar s/he builds. These
inspirational words of
wisdom were the theme for the world hula conference I attended in 2005.
The poster for the conference included these words and a
photograph showing a hula dancer’s soft, graceful hands
adorned with kupe’e – wristlets of woven leaves and
placed in front of her body.
I love this image and the associated phrase
‘ike 'ia no ka loea i
ke kuahu because it reminds me of the connection between
people, nature
and God.
I learned at this conference that the
kuahu –
the altar
– has three traditional levels of manifestations for hula
dancers. First, the
pali,
or seaside cliffs are
kuahu
of the
‘aina,
the land. Second, traditional hula schools
included a
kuahu,
somewhat like an altar in a church. The
hula
kuahu
is dedicated to
Laka,
the Hawaiian deity of hula, and is
made of specific plants of the forest each of which represents specific
qualities. The hula
kuahu
is created and maintained with
ceremony. And finally, and perhaps most intimately, our
bodies are
kuahu!
YES! Our bodies are altars! Spirit dwells in our
bodies. With this in mind, I commit to caring for my body as
a
kuahu.
I commit to eating healthy food, to cleansing regularly, to grooming
myself
with care, to adorning myself beautifully, to resting, to exercising,
to dancing and to singing, all in love and appreciation for the home of
Spirit which my body is.
And I commit to tending to the body level
kuahu of those who
come to me
to receive healing massage and/or instruction in lomilomi.

Aunty Margaret Machado, well loved Hawaiian elder and highly
influential member of the Mana Lomi® linage is well remembered
for saying frequently
Love
the body!! as she taught lomilomi
classes. When we touch with love, healing can happen at a
deep level because with love, Spirit is involved.
But
love
is only one of the two important words in this
phrase.
Body
is the other primary word. Loving and
caring for my body, and touching other peoples bodies with love, is one
way I bring to life the expression
‘ike
i ke loea i ke kuahu!
PRAYER
- IN BODY OR OUT OF BODY?
My dear Aunt Julie, a devout member of the Bahai faith, recently told
me that when she prays she leaves her body to commune with
God. I was startled. I respect and honor my
aunt’s experience with prayer, while I simultaneously respect
and honor my different experience. When I pray I am fully in
my body, breathing and feeling God in my body.
I often pray while giving lomilomi and for me, prayer physically
grounds
me in my body. WOW! How wonderful!
Many teachers of various lomilomi modalities emphasize prayer as an
important part of our work. And as Christianity was
accepted almost universally in Hawaii in the 1800 and 1900’s,
many lomilomi teachers use a Christian style of prayer which begins by
greeting God, and perhaps also Jesus, and then expresses gratitude and
prayer requests. Sometimes I personally use this form of
prayer, sometimes not. Many other lomilomi teachers use
universal language in wording their prayers.

In teaching lomilomi classes I follow the prayer style
modeled by Mana Lomi® founder Dr. Maka’ala
Yates. I’ll open the prayer with some variation of
this greeting: “
Spirit
of Peace, Spirit of Love, Spirit of
Harmony in all people, places and things, thank you...”
Mana Lomi® teachers do our best to make Mana Lomi®
available to people of all spiritual faith backgrounds who, while
committed to their own faith, are also open and respectful of other
faiths. We acknowledge that people of different
faiths often have different reference points. Examples of two
different spiritual reference points are the time of Christ and the
time of
Mu,
also known as Lemuria.
Pule,
the Hawaiian word for prayer, was in use long before Christianity
reached Hawaiian shores in the early 1800s, and traditionally referred
to chanted verse addressed to the land based deities recognized and
honored by early Hawaiians. Today the word
pule refers to all
forms of
prayer.
We use spiritual chants of affirmation in Mana Lomi®
classes.
Here’s one that I especially enjoy. Repeatedly
chanting these inspiring words has helped me to embody
their reality in my life.
E
ALOHA
DIVINE
LOVE
E aloha
kakou
We are loving
Ho’omau
kakou
We persevere
Malama kakou
We are caring
Ikaika kakou
We are strong
Makaukau
kakou We
are prepared
‘Eleu
kakou
We are
energetic
Hau’oli
kakou
We are happy
E pono
kakou We are rightly
aligned.
composed
by Maka'ala Yates
For some people singing in public takes a leap of
faith, and singing in a foreign language is really a stretch.
Singing in public was a healing experience for me. Perhaps
like me some of you had an incident in your youth that left you
believing that your singing was junk. Perhaps someone
laughed at you or suggested that you mouth the words while others are
singing.
I kept my singing mouth shut from the age of about 17 until my mid
40s. For me setting my limiting
not good
enough belief aside and embracing the fullness
of my singing
voice opened doors to powerful healing!
Occasionally people prefer not to chant in class because they
experience doing so as somehow outside their alignment with
“their God”. Simply listening
respectfully is always OK in my lomilomi classes for people for whom
this is
true.
When I chant these Mana Lomi® healing chants, Spirit,
nature and prayer flow through my body, mind and soul to meet with the
souls of other individuals, of humanity and of the earth, our shared
home.
As I share Hawaiian healing chants in lomlomi classes, I do
so hoping that our singing voices will open and fill the hearts of
others as
it now fills mine! And truly, it has taken a whole series of
special healing miracles to get me where I am today!
Mahalo - thank you - all my dear readers. I send you
my
love.
Barbara Helynn Heard
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Heard
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